Ok this is for all you love experts out there.
Basically, I like this guy. I believe he does like me, but I honestly can't tell. I talk to him a lot. I mean, a lot. He knows I like him (let's not get into detail about that). Now, I've liked him since middle of October (that's when my ((at the time)) boyfriend broke up with me) and I still like him. He wants me to stop liking him, but I can't. I've tried, but I can't. Does anyone have any help for this issue? What can I do?
Any help is greatly appreciated. c:
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I need some advice
Posted by KoppoKoppo - December 5th, 2015
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Simple...
Go Watch some Gundam and or other mecha stuff together... if that doesn't make him want to be inside you... give him your netflix password... wait till the next day and repeat until you run out of DVD's
(or VHS's)...
If you stream that shit online... he gonna hate because you're not supporting the show... ect.
If you can find a rare orginal Japanese Gundam VHS... just play a game where you make you're own funny dub... if that doesn't work... sorry honey, he not human. (bestiality is illegal)
If you still want your inhuman companion to love you, no matter whether there's the compatibility and legal issues. Just break into his room at night and lay next to him in bed, cosplaying as Allenby Beardsley... (you can guess what happens in the morning). may want to miss this step if under age
If you want to listen to him, (but you're attached to succeed)... get a bag of Doritos and enjoy Gundam by yourself... then be a tsundere to him in person and try to phise his Netflix password... then watch Adventure Time.
Thank me later
Uhh... Thank you? o-o
A good friend will usually just be that; a good friend.
It doesn't matter what you do or try to do, they will still just try to be friends.
This makes a lot of sense actually... Huh...
What is it about him that you like?
He has a great personality. He's always very sweet to me, and he hates people who make fun of me. Also he's kinda hot. But that's not the main reason why I like him.
Do you think one of the reasons you're close to him is because of your break-up?I've heard it happens sometimes.
It could be, it hurt me when my last relationship ended... Maybe it's because I'm longing to be in a relationship? I honestly don't know for sure, but it could be that or the idea I came up with...
It's times when we get hurt that we need companionship the most.
Tru, and I think that's why I like him...
Have some time to heal yourself and see how it turns out.Maybe do your favourite hobby to occupy yourself.
If you still insist on getting into a relationship with that person, you can try, but not in a straight-forward way that you may think of.
FIND WHAT HIS INTERESTS ARE
SHARE HIS INTERESTS
SPEND TIME TOGETHER
If you do it for half a year, there's high probability he will break and fall in love, no matter how tough of a nut he is. But there are two points you have to consider:
1) He may not always have time for you, so be patient. This is supposed to go for months. Learn to occupy yourself when you are alone, learn to draw better and develop as a person - all of this will make you a better candidate in his eyes;
2) If you hate his interests and can't understand what he likes, then don't force yourself - that's self-torture and utterly inhuman, even more inhuman than torturing others.
If it fails, then it fails - at least you will be sure that there's no chance of getting it on, and you'll be able to finally move forward. Good luck.
I will take your advice and try it. I'm a very awkward person while he is really confident, and maybe he could help me with becoming more confident. o3o (no seriously I have no social skills whatsoever, though I do talk a lot...)
Don't let any male ruin your mood and life and stuff, none of them is worth it :\ I'd suggest looking for a girl instead... xD
But if he wants you to stop liking him, it's a lost cause, obviously x) And maybe you wanted to fill that place left after your previous boyfriend?
Probably, and I'm starting to get over him, but it's a long process. xP
AliceMako
Somebody who doesn't want to be with you isn't worth your time, no matter how much you're into them.
KoppoKoppo
I should listen to this advice.
But my heart is like "Nope. Still liking him. Good luck!" *gets shoved into pit full of death*